I don't know if this is normal or not, but usually beyond getting red, my bottom no longer marks, so we haven't seen bruises on me in quite a while. But a few days ago, Ash decided to switch things up and made me spread my legs as I bent over the back of our big chair, so he could reach the inside of my cheeks, and thoroughly worked me over with the horrible holey plastic spoon. He kept stopping to have me service him though, so I got mini breaks and didn't realize just how bad it had gotten back there. I was sore for sure, even had to play on the tablet on my tummy, which I don't usually need to do. But it didn't occur to me to look at the damage until the following day when I was exiting the shower(and then only cause it was still so tender!). I was really surprised to find several tiny bruises on one side and a lemon-sized purple splotch on the other. Unfortunately, I think that area will soon be a bruise-free zone too like the rest of my bottom. It kind of sucks not having marks show up anymore, because when all that's left is a slight redness after a few hours, he might think he didn't do a good enough job!
I keep thinking of things I would like to post about, but only having internet access two days a week is cramping my style in that department, plus I'm super busy. Managing the day to day kid stuff, serving my husband full time, and cooking all our food from scratch is about all I am up to right now anyway, so unfortunately all I have right now is mundane updates. I am still slowly working on my novel, only about an hour a day, so I probably won't be finished for a year at this rate. But the next time I post I should be in a place where I can include an interesting, if not spicy, excerpt.
Until then, I leave you with this loving image :)