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Thursday, April 17, 2014
Rough Patch
Let me explain: not a rough patch in my life or marriage, but on my rear! For the past week and a half or so, Ash insists that after I shower and get all lotioned-up, I come to him and and ask for a spanking. He quite enjoys pinning me down and walloping away until I cry and kick like a little girl. He even laughs a lot sometimes while he's spanking me like that because he says I look exactly like a kid in the really old school cartoons throwing a fit while being spanked. But in my defense, it flippin' hurts. But back on topic, after many days of daily thorough spankings, I developed a bit of a rough patch on one of my sit spots. I have been using lotion and coconut oil throughout the day and it's getting better. I was just wondering if this has happened to any of you, and if anyone knows why that happens? It is the spot that is most sore, so I'm assuming it got more smacks than other spots, but that's all I know that could be the difference. And just in case you were wondering, all of these spankings were good girl spankings, but they left me quite sore! We went for a walk about an hour after my morning spanking today and even my panties rubbing on my bottom was uncomfortable :) I made the mistake of telling Ash and he just grinned, smacked my fanny, and said "Good".
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River, it really sounds a little rough, and if they were good girl spankings, I want that too. :) Not the rough patch, only the nice spankings. I have had a sore bottom and something like a rough patch, so that I didn't sit well, but I had assumed that was just because the spot got most spanks. I never connected that to showering or applying lotion. Hmm you should do some field testing...
ReplyDeleteAnd I hope so much that your sit spot heals well, happy Easter!
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Nina
Hi Nina,
DeleteI'm not sure you want my husbands version of gg spankings. They are hard and long, just without the lecture :-) After my paddling this morning, I could tell that the rough patch, also a very sore spot, is where the last few inches of the paddle land. I am going to try Vaseline this weekend so I'll let you know how it goes. Happy Easter!
He needs to give your butt a break and let that patch heal! It sounds like a simple problem of irritated skin. Keep putting lotion on it (try a hydrocortizone cream) and try not to irritate it further...it will heal.
ReplyDeleteHi Autumn,
DeleteI'm not see that idea will fly with Ash, but he did mention spanking my thighs only until that spot is better. Yeowch! I'm not sure which would be worse, but he will be extra busy for the next
few days so maybe I will get a break after all :-) Happy Easter!
It doesn't have anything to do with the water or the lotion. If anything the lotion helps. I get rough spots ALL the time. It is usually due to the implement they use. If he is using a paddle that is generally the reason. Ask him to use lighter implements longer. Even a thinner paddle or spatula.
ReplyDeleteI have a blistered area. Sigh it seems like since it first happened last June, that area is more sensitive. Barney consciously makes sure he isn't hitting that spot more than others but it still happens. What helps is lotion in between spanks too. So spank for 5 or 10 minutes, then have him put more lotion on. I also put vaseline on that spot with a large bandaid at night ( yes it is sticky) but it helps too
Good luck!
willie
Oh my gosh Willie, blistered? That sounds super ouchy! I have never had that happen. He's drawn blood a few times, but that always heals in a day. I got a shorter spanking today, but he doesn't want to use a lighter implement because he really likes to push my limits lately. He's tried a few different ones including spatulas, rulers, and the belt. They don't make me squirm and sob satisfactorily(except the belt, but that makes me instantly submissive so no squirming) so they are out. I'm trying Vaseline on top of lotion 3x a day, so I'm hopeful it will resolve soon :-)
ReplyDeleteI hear ya on the wood thing. Nothing NOTHING works 'better' on me either, AND that includes a lexan paddle with holes in it. The ruler...pfft, even the belt - meh. Spatulas? they are okay for warm ups! LOL
ReplyDeleteDo you have a cane? Our lexan cane can get me 'moving' LOL.
As for the blister, yeah it is uncomfortable, but I usually don't notice it until the next day. Often Barney has to tell me why he has to stop spanking me. Oh well, First World problems and all! lol
You make me laugh! First World problems indeed :-) We don't have a cane, but Ash sometimes buys several dowels that are about a half inch thick. I don't mind because they break after one spanking so I know there is a limit to how often they can be used :-)
DeleteBottoms that are spanked regularly are going to get rough spots, cracked and chapped buns. That is why I went searching for some type of lotion to help with my bottom. Ty would tell me that I had a rough patch. Lots of lotion and maybe have Ash try and avoid that rough patch for a while. Don't give up the good girl spankings, just work around them.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't give them up even if I wanted to ;-) Yikes, cracked buns sounds awful! Have you found one lotion that works better than others? Right now I am using cocoa butter and Vaseline, seems to be helping.
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