I recently sent my husband this email after asking him a question and getting an answer I didn't expect. I like to check in with him periodically to see if he would appreciate any changes or additions to our sex life. He said he would like a day to compose his answer, and I am patiently awaiting his response.
Honey I have some questions for you. Sexually speaking I think I may be confused about what exactly turns you on. As people, we are constantly evolving and changing and this is good, but I want to make sure we stay on the same page. When I asked you today if you ever felt like telling me to get on my knees, calling me your slut, and fucking my mouth and you said no, it was confusing to me because you have done that before. I enjoyed it, and you seemed to at the time as well. So I guess I just want to discuss with you what you currently enjoy (obviously not that :) ) and what I currently enjoy. I'll start with me, since I already know what I like. As with everything in life, my wants and needs go through phases. Right now, what turns me on the most is knowing that I am pleasing you and knowing that if I don't please you I will be punished (I know this is not reality, just a fantasy in my head as of now, but I enjoy thinking about it) in whatever way you choose. I also love sucking your cock and licking your balls. I love when I can do anything to give you pleasure. I just wish I knew more ways to do that. I really enjoy being physically AND mentally dominated by you.