Showing posts with label turn-on. Show all posts
Showing posts with label turn-on. Show all posts

Saturday, December 28, 2013

A Letter to my Husband--Warning!! Sexual Content


I recently sent my husband this email after asking him a question and getting an answer I didn't expect.  I like to check in with him periodically to see if he would appreciate any changes or additions to our sex life.  He said he would like a day to compose his answer, and I am patiently awaiting his response.


Honey I have some questions for you.  Sexually speaking I think I may be confused about what exactly turns you on.  As people, we are constantly evolving and changing and this is good, but I want to make sure we stay on the same page.  When I asked you today if you ever felt like telling me to get on my knees, calling me your slut, and fucking my mouth and you said no, it was confusing to me because you have done that before.  I enjoyed it, and you seemed to at the time as well.  So I guess I just want to discuss with you what you currently enjoy (obviously not that :) )  and what I currently enjoy.  I'll start with me, since I already know what I like.  As with everything in life, my wants and needs go through phases.  Right now, what turns me on the most is knowing that I am pleasing you and knowing that if I don't please you I will be punished (I know this is not reality, just a fantasy in my head as of now, but I enjoy thinking about it) in whatever way you choose. I also love sucking your cock and licking your balls. I love when I can do anything to give you pleasure. I just wish I knew more ways to do that.  I really enjoy being physically AND mentally dominated by you. 

Thursday, October 3, 2013

What Turns You On?

When you choose a spanking story to read, what qualities do you look for? What kinds of spankings turn you on?  Discipline, erotic, D/s, public, fanfic? Are there certain elements of a story guaranteed to melt your heart, make you swoon with desire, or make you long to be one of the main characters? Is there a time period you like best, such as the 1800's, contemporary, or the future?  What about alternate realities? There are so so so many aspects to consider when choosing the setting and plot of a good novel vs. a short story.  A good novel will leave you with wet panties over and over, whereas a well-written short story makes you want to find your sexual partner right. this. instant. to fulfill those desires.
 I would like to know: what are some of your favorites and why?