As the submissive partner in a DD relationship, I find myself seeking my husband's counsel on occasion. Whether it's about my choice of clothing, what we should have for dinner, or a more pertinent issue, I resolve to take his advise before I even ask. I think that it quite undermines an HOH's sense of "being at the helm of the ship" so to speak, if his opinions are taken lightly.
What do you think? I am interested in both the husband's and wife's point of view. Are you the asker or the askee? How do you feel about advising someone/being advised by someone and whether or not they take your advise to heart?