Friday, March 14, 2014

I want my wifi back!

Hello to all of blogland :) I am writing this post from my hubbys android phone, and apparently swype is not compatable with blogger, nor does spellcheck work at the moment so I apologize if this post is less coherent than it should be. My main computer now has no internet connection until I go buy a wifi adapter since Ash just opened is home office and moved the modem upstairs, so I apologize for the lapse in posting. I am very hopeful that this issue will soon be fixed! So, there has been plenty going on here, including sick kids, changes in schedules, and plenty of spanking. I have been having a hard time trying to fit more exercise into my schedule, but am avoiding sugar still. I also came up with a "communication supplement" for Ash and I in the form of a journal that I keep in the implement drawer. I write him short notes more often, instead of looong letters every couple of months. So far its working great! I havent been punished much recently, but I was today. You would think I would avoid confrontation in the kitchen, but I somehow forget about the thick wooden spatula thats kept right in a jar on the counter....but my mind just forgets! Ash told me ehat a wonderful wife I was, and I disagreed with him a little bit. I was told that I am NOT to devalue myself and the work I do for our family, and given a mini punishment right at the kitchen sink. I was grateful, and humbled, and a little teary. I love that he gives me what I need rather than what I think I want :)

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  1. Hi River,

    It sucks not to have your wifi. Ours works all over the house, but in some places better than others. I hope you find an adapter today!

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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  2. Hopefully your wifi will be up soon and everything will again be in working order :)

    It's great that our HOH's do not allow us to downtalk ourselves and especially comforting knowing that they love us and care for us so deeply.

    hugs
    sara

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    1. Hi Sara,
      I'm hopeful :-) It is really great that he doesn't let mego down that road, because once I start, it's hard to stop.

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  3. Awww how sweet that he toasted your buns in the kitchen *wink*. We don't have a communication journal, we try to talk every day for about 5-10 minutes strictly about ttwd and our relationship. It makes such a huge difference. I can certainly see how a journal would be wonderful too!
    I hope you get your wifi back soon. Typing on 'non keyboard' devices SUCK! I feel you pain ( both )
    love
    willie

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    1. Hi there Willie,
      Yes, he likes to joke about it when grilling burgers too, and always asks if I want my buns toasted :-) I would like to talk with him maybe a little more often about ttwd, but I always feel like I bring it up too much as it is. Ash is never impatient about it or anything, I just get self conscious about it and don't want to come off as too needy, if that makes sense. And now I'm going to pray that a wifi adapter magically appears in my computer by morning.......

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  4. Wifi problems are no fun! Hope it gets fixed quickly! I love when our husbands defend us from ourselves. So sweet!

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    1. Hi Cole,
      Its been two agonizing weeks now and I have one more to go, but I think Ash may let me use his laptop til then!

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