tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post484584769300419434..comments2022-12-11T00:49:07.123-08:00Comments on Kink- Fiction and Non-Fiction: What has gotten in to me?River Wildhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-87635010674130791122014-06-20T22:23:39.344-07:002014-06-20T22:23:39.344-07:00Thanks Autumn, I'm glad you liked the e-card, ...Thanks Autumn, I'm glad you liked the e-card, it cracked me up a bit :-) And your comments made me feel better, because I was seriously thinking I was just an immature weiner (not that that's off the table, just not for this reason) :-)River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-74539971167122064462014-06-20T19:09:10.142-07:002014-06-20T19:09:10.142-07:00Haha, that some-e-card is great! But, heck no, yo...Haha, that some-e-card is great! But, heck no, you do not need to "suck it up" and "move on." You can't help what you want--you deserve to get it! We all have ways of acting out when we don't get what we want--everyone does it, and it is not something that goes away with age. Frustration and longing comes out, one way or another. Some are just better at disguisingAutumnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10071247926710391470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-40750192936726665472014-06-19T21:40:08.149-07:002014-06-19T21:40:08.149-07:00Hi Blondie,
You're right, we really do need to...Hi Blondie,<br />You're right, we really do need to schedule something regular. It's just harder lately with his increased work hours, but anything is possible if you try, right?River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-70561307033028171512014-06-19T21:35:18.675-07:002014-06-19T21:35:18.675-07:00Hi Nina,
I think you're right about the fact t...Hi Nina,<br />I think you're right about the fact that because there is less time for us, it is contributing to my need to challenge him. His work hours have increased by 15 hours a week recently also, temporarily thank goodness. I know we'll figure it out somehow :-)River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-13418096975180485082014-06-19T21:25:19.355-07:002014-06-19T21:25:19.355-07:00Hi Willie,
Interesting theory, that mini spankings...Hi Willie,<br />Interesting theory, that mini spankings wake up the brat. I look forward to reading your email :-)River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-91882893294287126092014-06-19T11:44:19.699-07:002014-06-19T11:44:19.699-07:00Sounds like the kids are rubbing off on you... Lol...Sounds like the kids are rubbing off on you... Lol Totally agree with Willie. We have set a specific date and time, every week for some alone time. We do whatever we have to do to have that time. For us, it's Tuesday night. We usually get 1-2 hours alone time. You might be surprised how many of your friends would like some alone time too (probably not for a spanking though). Friends would Blondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990349853331249894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-90881574681471593982014-06-19T09:41:45.078-07:002014-06-19T09:41:45.078-07:00River, it’s lovely that your kids are there and yo...River, it’s lovely that your kids are there and you have much fun with them, but I am sorry for you and Ash, because the quality time just for the two of you is suddenly reduced to a late night edition. <br />I hope that you find a neat way through this. But apart from scheduling something this really is sort of tricky, with the kids around most times. And asking for attention sounds like the stay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-72238439206162732062014-06-19T04:45:51.998-07:002014-06-19T04:45:51.998-07:00Hey River! Been there. I'm going to email so...Hey River! Been there. I'm going to email something to you. It may or may not help Ash understand. All these 'mini spankings' as I call them wake up the brat. They put 'her' on alert. Almost like a bummunity as I like to say. Mini spankings don't bring back the connection. <br /><br />Anyway I get it....off to email<br />love<br />williewilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-49756222393746471392014-06-18T21:59:06.503-07:002014-06-18T21:59:06.503-07:00Hi Cat,
I think it would be wise for us to schedul...Hi Cat,<br />I think it would be wise for us to schedule something, just have to figure out how. I haven't been intentionally bratting for attention, I have actually been asking for lots of attention and he's been good about giving it to me. There's just a seemingly immature part of me that is having some impulse control issues, to put it nicely :-)River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-16988935641330756882014-06-18T21:49:44.209-07:002014-06-18T21:49:44.209-07:00Hi AB,
I think I do need extra attention right now...Hi AB,<br />I think I do need extra attention right now, just not sure why. Poor Ash has heard "play with me!" a lot lately <br /> :-) River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-26534080237525251262014-06-18T21:25:25.728-07:002014-06-18T21:25:25.728-07:00Hey River...I have read of others who have 'br...Hey River...I have read of others who have 'bratted' in order to get attention from their HoH. My suggestion is to have a conversation with Ash and see if you two can't find a way to arrange some private time for regular maintenance. Sending lots of positive energy your way.<br /><br />Hugs and Blessings...<br />CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4849992677630992610.post-52467870651405955662014-06-18T18:30:53.211-07:002014-06-18T18:30:53.211-07:00I know how much of a damper kids can put on the re...I know how much of a damper kids can put on the relationship. I would in some ways just chalk it up to your 'little' not getting enough time and attention and you just needing that something extra from Ash. Tiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04805071633671355739noreply@blogger.com